Let’s be real — I don’t have time for 5 a.m. smoothie bowls
If you’re anything like me, life in your 40s looks nothing like your 20s. Between kids’ schedules, running a business, trying to keep your sanity, and carving out a little time for yourself, “healthy living” has changed a lot.
I don’t spend hours at the gym or make picture-perfect smoothie bowls anymore. I aim for realistic wellness. I don’t do everything perfectly (spoiler: no one does), but I’ve found simple habits that stick, are manageable, and make me feel better without adding stress.
Healthy habits that actually work for women in their 40s
1. Morning movement in comfy activewear
I’m not training for a race, but I move when I can — walking the kids to school, a short yoga flow in my office, or a quick bike ride. It all adds up, and the trick is making it easy.
I basically live in activewear. Cute, comfortable leggings and a supportive sports bra make it more likely I’ll move—even if it’s just stretching between Zoom calls. I’ve been loving adidas pieces lately; they’re flattering, hold up to mom life, and I don’t feel the need to change out of them unless I have to.
2. Prioritizing sleep — even if it’s not perfect
I can’t run on four hours of sleep anymore. I protect sleep like it’s precious: try to be in bed around 10, read a few pages, and put my phone out of reach. Yes, some nights are interrupted by kids, hormones, or an overactive mind. It’s not perfect, but winding down intentionally helps. For me that means limiting screen time in the evening, skipping caffeine after 2 p.m., and managing stress as best I can.
3. Drinking water like it’s my job
Hydration used to be an afterthought. Now I keep a big water bottle with me and aim to refill it several times a day. It’s a small change that helps my energy, digestion, and skin.
4. Meal prepping, but not for Instagram
I’m not prepping perfectly arranged meals. I do a little prep on Sundays—roast a big tray of veggies, make some grains, grill chicken, and chop produce for the week. Having easy options ready makes a huge difference. I usually look at the week’s schedule and plan simple meals for busy nights and nicer meals for quieter evenings.
The goal is making healthy choices easier, not making them perfect.
5. Saying no without guilt
Protecting my time and energy matters for my mental and physical health. I’ve learned to say no to things that drain me, even when it’s hard. Skipping an event or passing on dinner plans so I can decompress is a form of self-care.
6. Wearing activewear most days and owning it
Activewear is my go-to uniform. It’s comfy, looks nice, and makes it easy to move whenever I need to. Whether I’m dropping kids off, running errands, or fitting in a quick workout, I like being ready without a wardrobe change. I also wear workout shoes a lot—I’m on the go and need shoes that keep up.
Pro tip: choose activewear that’s breathable, high-waisted, and stretchy so it feels good all day. A solid backpack is great too—perfect for kid outings, gym trips, or quick weekend travel.
7. Taking 10 minutes a day for myself
Some days that’s journaling, other days a quick meditation or sneaking into the bathroom to listen to a podcast. It doesn’t have to be fancy—just intentional. Those ten minutes change how I show up for everyone else. It’s not selfish. It’s necessary.
8. Considering hormone support (because, hi, 40s)
We can’t ignore hormone changes in this decade. I’ve learned more about hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and how it can help with energy, mood, and metabolism shifts. It’s a personal choice, but it’s worth talking to your doctor if you notice changes. Feeling good in your 40s isn’t just diet and exercise — it’s whole-body health.
Final thoughts
Being healthy in your 40s isn’t about checking every wellness box. It’s about finding what works for you, staying consistent where you can, and letting go of the rest. Some days I hit all my habits; other days I don’t. That’s okay.
If you take one thing from this: your version of “healthy” doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. It doesn’t have to be perfect to be powerful.
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